run the business. “My initial reaction was that
I can’t rebuild a home and a business,” she
explains. “I e-mailed my out-of-town Web
programmers, Rocket Web Consulting, to
send their final invoices, that I was closing.”
But at that point a series of events took
place that kept BnBFinder.com alive and exemplifies, in a small way, the spirit of America following the terrorist attacks. White’s Web
programmers responded that they would run
her site at no charge until she could pay.
Staying in a friend’s apartment, she was able
to get a computer set up and go online. Using
Costco’s Nova credit-card-processing service,
she was able to reestablish online transactions.
BnBFinder.com survived. White and her
family returned to their building in November
and she reopened her home business.
“I choose not to think about the horror
and fear of that time; instead I focus on how
lucky I am,” she says.—TT
BnBFinder.com can be contacted at:
www.BnBFinder.com or 1-888-469-6663
Frank Bulei broke his neck, but
not his spirit. His construction
business is now better than ever.
(Don’t try this without goggles
and saw safety guard!)
Sam Asbury
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When he received his orders, he saw that all
disappearing.
In the few weeks he had to prepare,
Asbury discussed his situation with two attorneys, both friends, and they struck upon an
unusual solution. One agreed to take over
Asbury’s cases and handle the trials. The other
would handle new business that developed in
Asbury’s office. “We agreed to a 65/35 split,”
says Asbury. “The 35 percent, along with my
active-duty pay, covered ongoing expenses—
barely.” Thinking positively, he also decided
to renew his advertising agreements.
DAVID W. MOSER PHO TOGRAPH Y
Frank Bulei
Enchanted Places
Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
Ten years ago, Frank Bulei, 32, was on
top of the world. His business, building custom homes and additions, was
thriving.
While Asbury was in Kuwait, his wife,
Melinda, took over the business and trust
accounts, so she could keep home and business bills paid.
Then he broke his neck.
“This is a love story,” writes
his wife, Deborah, in a moving
account sent to The Connection.
After a year, Asbury returned, expecting
to have to start over from scratch.
“The first day I was back, I was encouraged,” he says. Although several clients had
gone to other attorneys because he was not
available, potential clients had continued to
call, which Asbury attributed to keeping his
advertising current.
It’s also a story about determination and perseverance, about
dogged personal motivation and
about how good fortune can follow a time of bad luck.
“For weeks his
tools lay idle and I
took care of him,”
Deborah writes.
“Spring came, and
with it came the real-
ity that he might lose
everything he had
worked so hard for.”
“Additionally, a handful of clients did
not have time-sensitive issues, and literally
waited for me to return.”
Bulei had steadily built his
construction business, gaining
customers by word-of-mouth referrals. He had just brought home a bride,
Deborah, to an early-1800s farmhouse that
was nearly renovated.
physically demanding job. “For weeks his
tools lay idle and I took care of him,”
Deborah writes. “Spring came, and with it
came the reality that he might
lose everything he had worked
so hard for. So, setting his
mind against failure, and gritting his teeth against the
pain, Frank Bulei stood up
straight to his full 6 feet and
started the long walk back.”
The first step was to
make a small garden house
for Deborah. He decorated it
with a variety of handmade
swings, benches and arbors.
“I’ll never know if that ‘big case’ passed
me by,” Asbury says, “but I am proud to have
done my part for my country and I feel
blessed that my family was cared for and my
business survived.”—T. Foster Jones
But then he started experiencing debilitating pain in his shoulders and neck. After
lengthy tests, doctors detected broken bones
in his neck. He undoubtedly suffered the injury while on the job.
The Buleis sold some of the woodcrafts at a
local crafts show, and the response was immediately overwhelming. Customers once
again hired Frank for high-end remodeling
projects, and business today is better than
ever.
Sam Asbury can be contacted at:
Asbury@teleport.com or (503) 666-4567
Surgeons used titanium plates and screws
to put Bulei back together. It took six months
of rehabilitation before he could return to his
“There’s a slogan: ‘Be valiant, knight,
and true,’ “ says Deborah. “That’s what Frank
tries to live by in everything he does.”—TT
Enchanted Places can be contacted at: (610) 287-2230
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